How to become a lovely people?
Be a fun person. The so-called good-looking faces are the same, and the interesting soul picks one.
The more fast-paced the times, the more people will feel bored. Imagine that when the people around you are showing a faint expression and there is no passion, you can continue to bring happiness to everyone. Is there more people willing to stay with you?
How do you make a funny person? As the saying goes, humor is a kind of wisdom. To be a fun person, you must first have a knowledge reserve, usually read more interesting books, remember some interesting jokes, and then develop a habit of sharing. When you are eating, take the initiative to share some of the news you see, or the jokes you have prepared.
Compared to one voice, always listen to others, when you can also mobilize the atmosphere, you will be more liked than now. Remember, people are more willing to stay with people who can bring them knowledge and bring them happiness.
One of my teachers once taught me a truth. I have always kept in mind that it is not to pollute the atmosphere and emotions. There is a saying in the Yijing that is called the release of the ice. First-rate socialists not only know how to break ice, but also never pollute others' emotions.
Admittedly, we all have our own emotions and frustrations, but imagine that when everyone is very happy, you are alone with a face and a gloomy face. Do you think someone will like you?
A sign of a person's maturity is to know what kind of emotions should be maintained on what occasions. In a happy atmosphere, if you are really happy because some things are very depressed, you can try to pretend to be happy, open your mouth and keep smiling, the bigger the better, stick to 10 seconds, your mood will immediately has improved.
Psychologists have long confirmed that our body and mind are mutually influential. When you are unhappy, try to let the body imitate the physical movements when you are happy, and your psychology will improve soon. This will not only regulate your own situation, but also will not destroy the emotions of others.
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