If you also want to fall in love, please ask yourself these questions:
Question 1: Can you accept his imperfections?
He is not a saint, nor is he a standard twenty-four filial boyfriend. He may not be able to achieve all your love for love. He may occasionally neglect the daily communication with you, may make you angry, may be stupid when you quarrel, do not know what to say, simply keep silent.
Then you are even more angry.
He may occasionally be lazy, tired, and may have depression. He is a man who has omissions and has shortcomings in his personality. He may need to learn, need to grow, and need to gradually realize what love is.
Many girls take things for granted. It may be difficult for boys to understand. Sometimes you may have the illusion of raising a son. When should he appear, when should he say good night, and he has to teach.
He may indeed be good to you, and most of the time he is very careful, but it is inevitable that for a moment, he will do things that make you unhappy.
A love is good again, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and quarrels. It will inevitably take a long time to go to each other a little bit. You let people who have years of love say a few sweet moments, they can give you a long list, sweet until you doubt whether your life is particularly wicked.
But let them say a few moments that they want to break up, they can also give you a lot of lists, so that you can't help but persuade yourself to "single and keep you safe."
Are you thinking about the negative situation of these loves?
It is also possible that after falling in love, you will encounter situations that most people will encounter: the retreat of passion, the contradictions and differences between the two people are gradually exposed, causing incomprehension, incompatibility, communication difficulties, and even quarrels and cold wars.
These are almost inevitable running-in problems. Do you have the psychological preparation to accept these?
Can you accept the occasional small grievances?
Can you accept that your love is not exactly in line with your fantasies?
Can you accept two people growing together in your relationship?
If the answer is yes, you are really ready for love.
